And of course all of those other interested folks who might want more house detail, but since Mariah is the loudest and most passionate complainer about my lack of posts :-) this one is for her!
So, you were wondering about our big Ta-da moment......and the thing is, it was hard for us to blog about as the moment never really seemed to happen. However, as I glanced back over our blog I realized just how little I'd really documented about the process on here, so I've dedicated a couple of hours to uploading a slim selection of the bazillion photos we did take and written a bit about our experiences - grab a tea, settle in, and here you go, a mass catching up on house details!!!!
To start with, you were asking about our last night in the Barth, and I have to say, it was nothing really that spectacular. We'd been getting increasingly cold and uncomfortable living in there and ended up spending more and more nights with Meg (Jamie's sister) and her family as they were housesitting in a house in Almonte with a basement suite. We had to bring our water inside so that it wouldn't freeze, we slept cuddled up to hot water bottles and spent days enjoying the heat of the wood stove in the yurt. Jamie's mom was traveling to Florida in November so we knew we had her house to stay in soon, but we just had to tough it out for a few more nights.
I actually have no memory of our last night in the Barth, since we did not realize it was our last night. We fully intended to spend a few more nights there, but on Oct. 30th we left a friends' Halloween party to the discovery that it had snowed heavily all evening long, and it was pretty easy for us to succumb to the kids pleas of 'please, please, please can we call Nana Heather and stay there tonight?!' So, we packed it in and moved in with her, not sorry to miss any more frigid nights in our RV one bit!
It also did not feel totally memorable, as we knew that we'd be moving right back in next spring! EVERYTHING was delayed more than we had anticipated, and although the house was comfortable enough for us to be able to move into for the winter, it is not done yet so we'll need to spend another month (or so, now that I'm more realistic! Let's just say two months!!!!) living in the RV come the warmer weather of spring. During that time we'll do the final coat of plaster on the inside of the exterior walls, plaster up the interior walls and then once that's all done, acid etch the concrete floor a dark brown and seal it. And as a result we have to move EVERYTHING out, store it in our white storage tent, and move everything back in once again. I'm rather depressed and exhausted when thinking of that, so I try not to focus too much on it and realize that we'll power through it at the time, and just get it done. And then won't it feel AWESOME to be moving in for good?????!!!!!
As for our big moment of moving in to the house, that too was VERY anti-climatic. In fact, the week or two after moving in were probably the lowest points of the whole process so far for us. Full of 'did we screw up'?, 'what were we thinking'?, 'why did YOU think this was a good idea'?, 'why is the air quality so bad in this so-called green house'? and 'will we ever feel warm again'? type questions. We no longer had a place of our own to stay in, so felt the strong need to get into the house, but we didn't have running hot water, there wasn't enough insulation to keep the heat in, most of the doors weren't in yet and much of the glass wasn't in the doors that were in, there was no air movement or ventilation so we felt like we couldn't breathe, etc. AND Jamie was busy at work, and it was COLD and well, very stressful. BUT the plumber pulled through, we got an HRV installed and now have air movement, we spent HOURS late into the night insulating inside and out, the doors arrived, we cleaned, unpacked, set up and started to make this a home through hard work - and a conscious choice to solve rather than dwell, and to quit accusing and blaming as that's NEVER helpful. And you know, at the end of Dec. we looked around and realized WOW - it really feels like a home, we've managed to pull it off. That and Christmas for the kids. No wonder we were EXHAUSTED over the holidays and wanted to go to bed early every night, but we're through the worst of it and are now falling more and more in love with our home!
So there you go - no big 'TA-DA' in the moment, but hopefully you can see why not. ALSO, we continued to feel rather cut-off from everyone as we did not get our phone hooked up until Dec. 27th, and as for internet, we tried a few different options but did not get working internet here at home until a couple of weeks ago. I cannot begin to describe how awesome it is to have such fast internet, and instant access to friends far and wide, it has done wonders to lift my spirits! And now that I've caught up a little on the house details, I'll work on finishing up the monthly family photos from last year, and THEN onwards to more regular posting! xo